Bad days

Any one who knows J and I know we love each other... We always hold hands, giving each other little kisses, watching each other from the other side of the room... But some days are just harder then others. Some days J drives me crazy! Some days I'm a grouch & snap at him. I used to feel such anxiety when this happened. My flaw of putting such a high standard on myself leaks in to my relationships sometimes. But the truth is J and I are very different people. We have different personalities. Thats ok. Above all we are human... So when we seem to have an off day instead of having anxiety I just remember that its still us, we still love each other, tomorrow is a new day :) Happy Monday! Happy Wives Club Staying Hopeful, Aunt LaLa

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  1. sleelyApril 1, 2013 at 11:02 AM

    Don't know what you're talking about ! Gramps and I never have had a cross word!,, April Fool! Love ya

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  2. sleelyApril 1, 2013 at 11:03 AM

    Don't know what you're talking about ! Gramps and I never have had a cross word!,, April Fool! Love ya

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  3. Eloquent ObiApril 2, 2013 at 6:50 AM

    Awww, i hope it got better! Happy Tuesday. Also, I nominated you for the Liebster award! Congrats! http://myeloquentrambles.blogspot.com/2013/04/liebster-award-2wahoo.html

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