|Happy Wives Club|
I remember being so self consious of my looks, personality, well everything when I met Josh.
I've been told many things about myself
Need to lose wieght
Boobs are too small
Calves look like a mans
"You are the STURDY one"
Your not the baby
Your just like your mom (Which was said as an insult.. but my mom is awesome so Hah!)
These words and comments follow you throughout life don't they? Every time you go to do something one of these "hauntings" come back.
Going into a new relationship all your insecurities show their ugly heads.
When I met Josh I had a couple of toads and toads friends in my life. It left my self-esteem in a disarray and smashed. I had gained some confidence but not where it should have been.
Then I met Josh. The sweetest and gentlest man ever. His compliments and encouragment has made me the confident woman I am today. I feel sexy. I feel beautiful. Most of all I feel accepted for who I am.
I did not change my core to make him love me... he loves me for me.
So a bit of encouragment...
If you are single- Look for a guy like my Josh who thinks you rock this world! Who loves everything about you! And wants to show you how awesome you are!
If you are dating/seeing a toad- GET AWAY! Listen, if your dating and when he is supposed to be on his BEST behavior he acting like a toad. Making you feel bad about yourself in anyway. SAY GOOD BYE. Because you will not change him before and definitely NOT after marriage
If you are married and you feel these insecurities- You are not alone. Reach out to our community at Happy Wives Club. Or a good ENCOURAGING friend. Talk and communicate your needs to your husband. If he is not listening seek advice from a counselor or pastor.
I hope you know if any of you need an ecouraging word or prayer please contact me... email (auntlala25[at]gmail or facebook
A very blessed wife,